This is a word that keeps coming up time and time again, by people who know me and in reference to me. 

We, are all faced with different challenges in our lives. But why is it that we sometimes feel we are the only ones going through something.

I, for one, know that this is not true, as in my work I have assisted a multitude of people over the years. Who have faced enormous challenges.

The reason that I feel I have been successful in this, is because I have faced enormous challenges myself. And boy am I facing one right now. 

This is where my girlfriend keeps reminding me that I am the most resilient person she knows.

But, I have the badge of resilience now and I no longer want to carry that badge and burden. It is enough already. It’s exhausting.

Now, I am moving peacefully, and walking in faith towards this next phase of my life and nothing or no one is going to stop me.

So What Now?

I have paid my dues in this life and I have worked incredibly hard, and will continue to do so. But, I will not allow myself to be treated the way I have been up until this point by allowing my self worth to be downgraded over the years by anything or anyone toxic.

We are all tested. But the outcome is ultimately how aligned and in tune are you to come to terms with the tests, and ultimately test your resolve in any given situation.

It is not easy. But what to do. Just give up. Many people do. This week was World Mental Health Day.

There is something fundamentally wrong with our society when it is statistically shown that every 40 seconds, someone in the world commits suicide.

To all those in the world right now, suffering, I hear you and I feel you. I am right there with you and I am here for you.

It is only through the decency of our fellow human beings that we can win this. By standing together, being kind, being empathetic to each other. 

Not Judging

Not criticising

Showing Kindness

Being polite

Being Patient


Being generous

” Do not look for healing at the feet of those who broke you “

Rupi Kaur

A wonderful collective worldwide change is coming. You can feel it in the air, you can hear it in the wind.

And if you stay still and in silence long enough.

You will feel it in your beating heart and soul. And in all that is around you.

Being resilient, Yes is a gift, but I am now at the threshold of my new life which is all about





Honouring my sacred space

Being true as always to who I am

Helping those in need always and to the best of my ability

Not allowing anyone or anything to disrespect me

I am Home literally and figuratively.

This is in honour to my ancestors who have guided me and shown me the signs. I thank you I thank you and I will continue to make you proud.

As always love Saskia xxx


Author: Saskia Loorea

I help people to Look Younger, Feel Younger, Have More Energy. In a genuine and holistic way, through my 7 days of Principle. I have successfully worked as a Holistic Health Coach, Yoga instructor and a fashion consultant for the last 30 years with a longstanding clientele, not necessarily always relying on my advice but appreciating my advice. And making incredibly big transformations in their life. With the understanding that everything takes time, with patience and dedication and passion.

    • Yes, it has to be LOVE always, thank you so much for taking the time to read the post. Writing it meant a lot to me and has been incredibly cathartic, much love xxx

    • Yes, I feel incredibly proud of it with everything I am going through right now. It has been written from the heart and as always my work is to assist and aid those in need. We are all going through something. And we all go through things of varying degrees in life. Some just more than others. But, it is a matter of staying and standing strong, so we can uplift and be there for each other.

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